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hello...
sorry for not blogging for a looooooooooooooong time...
i bet u ppl just cant wait for anudder post from urs trully...
wakakakka...

haha...
today i feel like blogging abt what happened today at madrasah...

my WORLD ustadz was talking abt raising children...
and said:
"tengok lah orang laen... bagos... hantar anak gi playgroup,
tengok orang melayu, anak baru nak masok tadika, baru nk start ajar"...

then, a dear friend said:
"cikgu tu mmg world... tapi one thing yg tadi cakap is true...
first kene save duit nak kahwin...
den nak save duit untok anak pregnant,
den nak save duit hantar anak gi playgroup"

den i said:
"buat ape orang nak hantar anak gi playgroup?"

den (s)he said:
"for people yang tak brape pandai jage anak"

den i said:
"kalau tak tau jage anak asal nak ade anak?"

hehe...
sorry to that dear friend if i was too straight forward...
im juz pissed abt this playgroup thingy...
ppl are all rushing, wasting money, sending their kids to playgroups...

but why?

is it because u have no time for your kids?
im gonna answer this qn...
NO WAY!!!
if u dun have time forur kids, how come u have time to make them?

hmmm...

then...
is it because u r not sure how to raise them proplerly?
yet again... im answering this...
OF COURSE NOT!!!
if u dono how to raise a kid, DONT GO MAKE ONE!!!

instead...
go learn how to raise a kid properly...

i donno...
but to me lar...
e first 5yrs of a kid is important...
not IQ wise...
i mean...
tts not rly important...
whats important is his family bonding...
his motor skills...
developing his habits...
developing social skills...
how to communicate...

is it rly important to get a 5yrs old to a playgroup so tt he can be a genius...
we do want the best for e kids...
bt isnt it kind of overdoing???

i donno...
ive seen my own sibling gg to these playgroups...
there are some benefits...
bt there are also some negative stuff...
my brother had to wake up at 5-6am to get to the playgroup-cum-childcare at 7am...
he learnt many stuff there...
and at 7pm...
he waits at e gate for my parents to fetch him...
once he reaches home...
BAM!!
straight to sleep...

where is the family quality time?
where is the get together session?

hmmm...

i dono lar...
mayb cos now i dun have kids yet...
mayb when later2...
i might send them too?
i donno...
hope not...
i dowan when my kids grow up...
they look for outside people for help...
like what im currently doing...
i want them to come to me n talk abt problems...

hhaahahaha...

dah lah...
dowana talk abt tis for now...
gonna help myself n my dear getah gang on our OOP project...
hahaahha...

oh yah...
im gonna have 2 more nephew/niece!!!
e newlyweds getting one...
and anudder cousin getting a 4th one!!!
woohooo1!!!!

total of 12children enrolled under uncle fizul childcare centre!!!
ahahahaha...

kk...
~tc peeps...