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TOO YOUNG TO BE IN (LOVE/A RELATIONSHIP)

hmmm...
this is an interesting topic...

a lot of ppl hv been asking me this qn...
esp since i got attached...
i read someone's blog regarding this...
(cant rmb whose blog though, hahaha...)
so i thought of blogging abt it...

ill be talking abt this mostly abt wat i feel lar...
so if im wrong, dun try to correct me cos this is what i feel...

too young...
wat is too young?
who in the world sets e age limit to be in love/relationship?
to me,
its all up to us...
theres no one to tell us:
you are too young...
you have no experience...
you cant make it...

if we are too young to be in love...
then we shouldnt be receiving love from our parents then...
cos its too young!
parents' love is different lah...
love is still love...

when u love someone...
u wish the best for them...
u will take care of their well-being in however way you could...
u will want to make them feel secured...
u will not want to lose them...

in what way is it different?

okok...

if my definition is wrong...
lets look into the dictionary then...

love /lʌv/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [luhv] Show IPA noun, verb, loved, lov⋅ing.

–noun
1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

–verb (used with object)

15. to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.
16. to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
17. to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.

see...
look at definition number 2...
for a parent, child, or friend...
they dun split it for friends only or family only...
so its all the same...

love is part of being human...
if u dun love someone, you're not human...
its the only one of the few gifts that God has given human...
it is nothing wrong with appreciate God's gift...
and there is nothing wrong about being in love at a young age...
there is no TOO YOUNG...
its just ur thinking...
tts all...

so enough about too young...

lets talk about commitment now...
some people are not willing to commit in a relationship...

WHY?

the main reason most people give is:
when im in a relationship, i have to restrict my behaviour with my other friends...
i hv to limit what i do with my guy/girl friends...

e 2nd sentence is what i dun like to hear at all...
limit what you do? just because u r committed to a relationship?

does that means if u r not in a relationship, u hv no limits???
if u r not in a relationship, u can behave/do whatever u like?

when u r not in a relationship, shouldnt u behave the same way as when u r in a relationship?
theres still the social limit between a guy n a girl when ur not in a relationship...
doesnt mean that u r in a relationship, u cant befriend the opposite gender...
u can...
juz control urself...
its only when u r in a relationship then u realize what u must not do...
bcos ur partner tells u so...
so before this u must hv been a wild child...
so its a good thing u r commited then...
hahaha...

truthfully, this is entirely my point of view...
if u hv other views, do publish it at ur blog...
then we can start a debate...
that would be fun...
ill be on e side which supports love and bringing up all the positive part of being in love...

hahaha...

kk...

tts all la so far i wanna talk abt...

~tc ppl...